25 of the Hard ones

• 1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel? 

Both. When I am telling someone else how I feel you are putting out your own feelings on the line but it's just as bad as when someone else tells you because you can only use body language as support in the moment.

•  2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way? 

The last time I can truly say I was honest to goodness upset was because of my dad. He has done a lot of things I don't agree with and yes I still feel the same way, I don't really want anything to do with him,

• 3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them? 

This one is really really hard if I was put into this situation I would most likely call my little sister and tell her how great I really think she is.

• 4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid? 

I wouldn't tell anyone if I knew I was going to die maybe a select few but, I mean I wouldn't want to bring anyone down on my account. With my last days I would honestly do something that makes me happy, go see play, watch a movie with my friends nothing too elaborate I would just want to be with the people I love. I can also say I have no fear of death whatsoever, If I ever lost anyone I would be broken but for me myself, I would be fine to go.

• 5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust. 

Love is defined as a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person and Trust is

reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence. That being said, if I could only have one of those from others I would say Trust. Love is given out so freely I feel but trust gives someone security and a feeling of stability and safe, I strive to be that for others.

• 6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not? 

This is not even a question, save the dog. Saving a life takes priority always. I can find another job, the dog drowning doesn't get another chance. Save the dog.

• 7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most?

This question is difficult, I'm not sure what hurt defines and in my life the people I love the most are usually the people I trust the most. I would probably have to say trust because I have an emotional attachment to the people I love and it would hurt more than the person I trust the most.

• 8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say? 

Well I'm not sure what friend is being used in this situation but if someone is close to me and I don't reciprocate those feelings I still care about that person a lot and want them in my life. I am selfish in that sense and wouldn't want anything to change.

• 9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not? 

I don't know anyone who has died. I also can't answer this.

• 10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend? 

Honestly, I would never want to be friends with myself. I wouldn't get along with me. We are too similar and the whole thing would just be a mess.

• 11. Does love = sex? 

That's the stupidest thing I've ever even heard.

• 12.Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not? 

Tell them that USDC is always hiring.

• 13.When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person? 

I don't really have a hard time saying how I honestly feel, ha well most of the time. The last person I think I told how I honestly felt was yet again my dad, I have no problem voicing my opinion on the things that I feel and what I believe to be right.

• 14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite sex, you love them or that you do not love them back? 

 That I love them back. no question.

• 15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?

This says thing so I am assuming it means not people. In terms of material things I would have to say I have a few. I would have a really hard time without, my bag, my dresses or my phone. They are all really trivial shallow things but I can say they are pretty important.

• 16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you? 

Last night! Alec and I were talking about love and how he thought it didn't exist at all and I told him I thought he was wrong because I loved him as a person.

• 17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why?

I can say nothing, I don't really regret things. It all happens for a reason. Maybe if anything not trying out for a show.

• 18.Imagine it is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you? 

Easy. Dumbledore.

• 19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not? 

Yet again another dumb question. Yes, who says their life is less important than mine?

• 21.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision? 

This is the hardest question yet. I would choose my grandma, as selfish as that may sound, I love her too much and couldn't be the person to decide if she lives or dies.

• 22. Are you old fashioned? 

I would say for the most part yes, I believe in old ideals and I am all for gender roles, not saying that I hate new age things, yeah go for it but nothing is better than a boy opening a door for a girl.

• 23. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it? 

I would imagine everyday, we don't know what is going on in other people's lives and don't realize the impact we can have on people positive or negative.

• 24.Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why? 

True love with the guarantee of a broken heart. You can only ever be as happy as you were sad which means you can't experience one emotion without the other, I would hate to live without feeling anything.

• 25.If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be? 

To make a difference for others and be what people need me to be for them.